When you are confronted with a challenge, question or any conundrum, what do you ask yourself?
“Why is this happening?”
“How can I figure this out?”
What you ask will determine your outcomes.
WHY seems to assume there in only 1 answer. WHY can freeze you in your tracks – paralyzes you from moving forward. WHY creates a self-pity scenario. WHY drains you. WHY is not the best way to deal with obstacles.
HOW triggers creativity in your brain – you will start looking for options and possibilities. HOW looks for potential. HOW energizes you. HOW empowers you.