When you are confronted with a challenge, question or any conundrum, what do you ask yourself?

“Why is this happening?”

“How can I figure this out?”

What you ask will determine your outcomes.

WHY seems to assume there in only 1 answer.  WHY can freeze you in your tracks – paralyzes you from moving forward. WHY creates a self-pity scenario.  WHY drains you. WHY is not the best way to deal with obstacles.

HOW triggers creativity in your brain – you will start looking for options and possibilities.    HOW looks for potential.  HOW energizes you.  HOW empowers you.